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Take your pick, part II

Tuesday, April 24th, 2007

The blame game is underway at full steam in the Virginia Tech massacre. This was not unexpected, of course; it’s what we do in our culture.

While we have lots of choices, I thought I’d offer two for your consideration.

The first is a brilliant piece (What the Killers Want) from the Sunday Washington Post by Lionel Shriver, the author of “We Need To Talk About Kevin.” The book is a novel about a school shooting, and Shriver is getting some of the blame. Her views are relevant, because she researched all school shootings before writing the book, and her insight is chilling.

Like me, she questions NBC’s giving the killer what he wanted, although she, too, admits that this is just the way it is in our culture:

Even more than these gruesomely gratuitous incidents themselves, I have come to dread the campus shooting’s ritual media aftermath — a secondary wave of atrocity, all conducted under the guise of grief, soul-searching concern and an ostensible determination to ensure that no demented loner ever opens fire on his classmates again. Yet the bloated photographs on front pages, the repeating loops of interviews on cable news, the postings of warped creative writing assignments on the Web, and perhaps above all the airing of Cho’s self-pitying, quasi-messianic video clips on every network all help ensure that similar incidents will indeed recur — and soon.

…the one motivation that seems to tie all these misguided characters together is a yearning for media recognition. In an era that has lost touch with the distinction between fame and infamy, so driving is the need to be noticed — for any reason — that even posthumous attention will do…

…the most obvious ounce of prevention would be to stop allowing the likes of Cho to play the media like a piano…

Shriver raises profound cultural issues, even though she, too, has been a part of the media fascination with such events through her book about Kevin. It’s a good read, whatever you think of her.

Meanwhile, the most disgusting finger-pointed comes from that bastion of purity, the American Family Association. This video, The Day They Kicked God out of the Schools, is worth watching, simply because it evidences the depth of depravity to which the religious right has sunk in its efforts to right what it views as wrongs in our culture. We can bitch and complain all we want about Islamic extremists and the threat “they” pose to freedom, but until we stand up to these profoundly deluded and hypocritical folks, our complaints are just public smoke blowing.

And to use such events as Blacksburg to raise money for their cause — at a time when the whole nation is still grieving — is beyond my ability to comprehend as a spiritual man. These organizations need events like this to justify their extremist beliefs and to push the cause forward. In media parlance, Blacksburg is a blockbuster to them, a fundraising bonanza that they can hold up to their supporters and say, “See?”

Take your pick.

LifeSlices: MySpace

Thursday, March 1st, 2007

When I grew up, high school was a very trying social experience. Individual identity was always tied to group identity.

“Oh, he’s that guy from the choir.”

“She’s a cheerleader.”

“He’s such a loser.”

“She’s just so popular.”

And so forth.

Getting in with the “right” crowd was the most basic quest of every student back in the early 60s, and this mission has been the basis for countless movies about growing up.

Kids were always labeled by other kids, and I don’t imagine it’s much different today. But there is something very different about today, and it’s found in the social connectivity of MySpace and similar places.

In this space, you’re permitted to define yourself, and I think that has significant ramifications for the future of everybody. That’s because it’s actually possible to drag your online identity with you into the “real” world (IRL), and in that sense, they’ve taken power away from the mob culture. Kids actually have some control over how they’re are seen by others, and that, my friends, is huge!

I would hope this means that young people just might be able to see past the surface and be more tolerant of others. Because if that can happen, tomorrow’s world will be a whole lot better than today’s.

LifeSlices: Scanning the Sunday headlines

Sunday, February 18th, 2007

UN urged to take action on asteroid threat
Illness from tainted peanut butter spreads
8 US troops die in Afghan copter crash
Bird flu spreads in Russia
Double car bombing kills at least 35 in Baghdad
Next stop Iran?

In the words of the immortal Frank Barone, “Holy Crap!”

Oh, and on the funny page, Britney shaved her head, Anna Nicole is still dead (though now embalmed), and “another woman” may have been involved in Hugh Grant’s breakup.

Find your own links. I’m going back to bed.